Personal support for men during Divorce & Financial Dispute Resolution.
Divorce is deeply personal and for most couples a painful period in their lives. However, it shouldn't mean spending your hard-earned savings and pension pot on unnecessary legal fees. It should be about a fair settlement so you secure your future.
After navigating the court system myself as a Litigant in Person, I realised that a fair outcome comes down to the hard reality of the paperwork, evidence, and your costs:
Paperwork & Evidence (The 70%): Forms and disclosure will dominate your resolution. Especially creating index-linked, searchable court bundles. I support you to collate your disclosure and arrange your paperwork with clarity.
At Court (The 10%): go to Court with a clear understanding of what the evidence suggests. I support your preparation so you can remain focused, spot misleading errors in disclosure, and make points confidently before a judge.
The Noise (The 15%): is general noise and emotional friction.This is about you and your partner reaching a fair settlement. My support helps you park the emotion, handle the admin, and protect your capital.
Cost: pay-as-you-go support at just £10 for 15 minutes. Removing anxiety!
I offer confidential, honest, support for people who want to self-litigate. Whether your separation is amicable or a contested hearing, my aim is to support you stem the emotion, handle the admin efficiently, and secure your financial peace of mind.
I am an independent consultant, not a regulated solicitor or barrister. I offer practical preparation support. If at any stage I believe you require formal legal representation, I will tell you immediately.
Before you pay fees to anyone...We need to address the court's first question: Have you and your partner attended any form of non-court dispute resolution (NCDR)? If not, the court will demand a valid legal reason why. https://www.familymediationcouncil.org.uk
A Friendly Voice (COMING SOON)
Guidance from someone who has been there.
Legal proceedings can be daunting. The paperwork can feel like it's designed to overwhelm you. You may not have access to the court portal. And you could well find the opposing Solicitor anything but helpful.
In this short video, I explain how we work together to steady any nerves, organise your financial disclosure, and prepare you to face the court with professional confidence.
COMING SOON. Video: A personal message of hope and guidance.
Personal support, not legal representation
This is not a big business. I am an individual offering support to those who are going through a divorce and either can't afford a solicitor or don't want to spend their life savings on legal advice. I am not a solicitor. I don't provide legal advice, act as your legal representative, or speak on your behalf in court. My role is to offer you the very things that satisfy the court and make a clean break possible: practical preparation, emotional reassurance, and guidance through your paperwork. And support communicating with your partners solicitor.
Call, WhatsApp or Text: 07570 564629
E-mail: support@divorce4lips.co.uk
Prefer to speak to a human? Call, text or WhatsApp me.
Divorce rarely follows a 9-to-5 schedule. For this reason my hours are flexible. Please leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I am free.
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Legal Disclaimer & Terms of Service
I am an independent divorce consultant. I am not a regulated solicitor or barrister, and I do not provide formal legal advice, act as your legal representative, or speak on your behalf in court. My service offers practical administration, guidance, support with document preparation and emotional reassurance based on real-life experience. Engaging my services does not create a solicitor-client relationship. If at any stage I believe you require regulated legal representation or formal legal advice, I will advise you to seek qualified legal advice immediately.